Tuesday, December 11, 2007

Secret Love...pft.

I used to live in a world where unconditional love was beautiful. Ummm...Now I don't. Lots of men love to be loved, but back off in converse relation to your affections. He sees the warning signs of possible reciprocation required and moves on. Not without keeping his back pocket open, mind you. And a little sign hanging off of it saying: "Stay here."

Sound familiar? RUN! Love thyself first, then, and only then can you be in a position to not only receive love, but truly give it. With boundaries. The kind of boundaries that all love needs. The kind that prevent utter, life changing heart break. The kind of love that doesn't twist and bend over backwards and drop everything to be there.

Everything needs conditions. Even love….. Especially love.

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